We would have remained friends if her husband had decided it was time for them to move closer to his mother and the woman he would eventually leave her for. You see he always ran around on her and I think she felt we all knew things and were not telling her once she found out he was a cheater. I did not know for sure but I suspected. Had I known would I have told her? I don't know. There are times when I think it is best to turn a blind eye. I think she was happy not knowing what he was doing.
Anyway, I had been contemplating writing her a letter and finally decided to do it today. Nothing great but just a note to let her know I was thinking of her and the good times we used to have.
I really do miss those times and if she does not respond, that is okay. I know I made an effort to try and reconnect with her.
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Well, I hope you do hear from her....that would be nice, but as you said---if not, you know you made the effort, and one can only hope it's not too late to possibly re-connect.
When a marriage fails, sometimes people try to find scapegoats other than their former spouse. It's hard to believe that she didn't suspect her husband at all--nor was it your duty to report suspicions to her, Dee. Of course you know all this, but it doesn't hurt to hear it from others as well.
I hope she writes back!
I have found that some old friends will be glad to resume a relationship and that others aren't there. I don't know why that it but it is. We'll see how this attempt pans out for you.
You've taken the step. It's all you can do for now. I've done the same thing with a few friends, and some were so happy to hear from me, and one never replied. So ... all you can do is try. Good luck.
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